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  1. Is your mother still in your life ? Does your brother live with you or on his own ? Does he have a caretaker or a case worker ?

  2. Mom is an addict and recently disowned us. He has his own house (left from dad) but doesn’t really take care of himself (hasn’t showered since he’s been with me this week, orders DoorDash, refuses to drive but is capable). I’m not aware of any caseworker as my mom handled that and isn’t the most trustworthy.

  3. Pretty crappy thing for your husband to say considering he knows about you relationship with your mom. Don't know why someone who is supposed to love and protect you would say something so hurtful. Hopefully he shows some kind of remorse and apologizes.

  4. It’s been months and nothing. If I bring it up, I’m bringing up the past, and trying to start and argument.

  5. Oh no honey, if he knows how you feel about your mother he was looking to draw blood and I am sorry he said something so hurtful.

  6. It’s been months it’s hasn’t left me I struggle with it daily

  7. There are more options tho, you could change the people you surround yourself with! If you find people who love you and that you love, you will want to live so you can see them again, consider your relationships , try to move away and find people who care, good people, it will take time and effort but eventually u will be so glad u did

  8. I’ll still be in constant pain both physically and mentally from the severe ptsd. I’m not even human anymore.

  9. Just so you know, the fact you’re trying makes you a REALLY good guy.

  10. Please I need someone to chime in with their opinions

  11. Update; marriage is better than ever. I told him if any words or actions are meant to harm it’s abuse. He admitted he was abusive. He has made so much active change. I love to say that you all were wrong about this one ☝️

  12. Update: I listened to a podcast I’ll link below. I realized I have some emotional abuse tendencies as well. We had a great convo and things seem different right now. I’ll update if he yells again.

  13. Did u, did u really or were u just in love with the idea of loving him? And not want to be a quitter. It's possible counseling could help, with your health maybe he's feeling stressed. Scared over even trapped.

  14. I’ve given him an out. I told him if he couldn’t handle it he didn’t have to.

  15. Oh wow. I looked it up. That sounds absolutely terrible... I’m so sorry you have to experience all that.

  16. Thank you so much. It’s incredibly hard. I’m also only 24….yet happy with the life I have had. I’ve been so giving and kind making it a point to start my own elf Christmas charity where I sponsor a family for Christmas and bring the gifts to the kids home dressed as an elf. Haha it’s my happiness.

  17. That’s a really beautiful idea! And yeah happiness is totally giving to others, helping when you’re needed, making ppl smile. That’s what it’s all about. I think it can be healing to give also. Like I’ve had a bad headache and done something to get out of myself or have fun and it goes away.

  18. I do meditate not as much recently. I’m trying to get back into it. I believe the reason for everything is that we have to learn and grow to reach some kind of peace. We can’t have peace without understanding. Both the bad and the good. A lot of issues would be solved if people weren’t ashamed ti open up emotionally and be vulnerable. I believe in a heaven and a god in a way but that god is more of a collective conscience that’s smarter than I. Heaven is a place to connect with those souls we grieve on a deeper more connected level, you know the feeling. I accept that I don’t know and I’m not supposed to or I would know the answer to life. Fun to try and find its

  19. I had Covid and an active flare I’m not going to lie I almost died. I have it bad. I’m here to chat we have similar symptoms. Good news though I made it - move your lungs daily till you feel like you’re gonna pass out.

  20. This happened to me - I’ve had 3 Pfizer

  21. I love Sean. I’m assuming you are young and come from a bad home. I did too. I now work in finance. I have everything I ever wanted and more. I became observant. Watched those who were successful and unsuccessful around me and took the traits of the good and got very great examples of the repercussions of the bad. I went to school because I like business and have a business mindset. Trade school is also a great option. Or engineering school. If on the other hand you like physical activity like Sean…that has to become your 24/7 job. Everything you eat and do will be fighting/sport. So it’s up to you but I can tell by this post you’ll be fine. You’re already asking the right questions.

  22. He may be checked out of the marriage and looking to start a fight to have a reason to leave for good. He will get physically abusive as You continue to walk off.You should file for divorce NOW!

  23. If he ever got physical it would only be once.

  24. Wow. You are ready to throw in the towel that fast? He is obviously yelling for a reason. What are YOU doing?

  25. Usually it’s that I did or did not say something of complete unimportance that starts a fight

  26. All I am say is me too I get it 🙃

  27. HELL NO!!! Start one. I will donate. I'm so sorry to hear about this :( If its truly for what you say- no one can judge and if they do fuck them.

  28. I don't think it's a bad thing, but I am very fair skinned and I wear wigs and I've never spent more than $80 on one and most of them are completely convincing, I can send you some pics

  29. Did you actually pass for a minute? Like a doctor told you this? Or you're assuming you did? How do you know it wasn't just a dream?

  30. No dr. But I have never been this sick. I’ve been close to death in hospital and knew I wasn’t going to pass. I believe in my soul i passed that night.

  31. That they get to experience life from an uncommon perspective and can learn from it if they pay attention. Otherwise nothing.

  32. Ah. That being said, it may err on the side of emotional abuse or at least toxicity. I’m so sorry. It really sounds like he needs to work on himself, or it may be time to move on.

  33. I’m just nervous I’ll lose everything my dad worked for every penny and we’ve been married less than a year I look stupid

  34. It’s really hard to tell the severity of it as an outsider. If you ever feel unsafe, please get out of there. However, it could be a circumstance where communication streams just aren’t good.

  35. I think ifs necessary at this point

  36. Hi there! Since this is an HS subreddit, we are not familiar with hair overgrowth and how to manage that. Even though this is the closest subreddit you have found to HS, it’s still much different. There is a subreddit for hirsutism. That sounds like the condition that you have, causing your overgrowth of hair where hair shouldn’t be. This is caused by hormone abnormalities, such as PCOS and can happen in men and women. I would maybe post this there to see if you can get any advice. Sorry we couldn’t be more help! :/

  37. After review that is not at all my symptoms. Has anyone had success by shaving their head? Or at least buzzing it?

  38. Hm. Tbh that sounds wrong. As your husband he should love you for the person you are, if it's annoying he should be supportive rather than ... That. In a healthy relationship you were able to talk about the feelings he causes with his behaviour. You should be able to talk about anything since he's your partner in life and should be supportive when you struggle. Please think about this and if your marriage creates an environment in which you feel loved and supported.

  39. :(((( I think you need a new therapist. And possibly a new husband, while you're at it.

  40. I love him and he loves me I think but there’s money involved and I think that might be it i have no idea anymore

  41. Please comment again so I can save this for later

  42. I am but not sure how much longer I got better and am feeling bad again like a cycle

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